This article provides a critical assessment of our understanding of partner abuse and violence in teenage relationships. Initially, an overview is provided of theoretical and mythological issues in this problem. In contrast, a more encompassing approach, incorporating gendered power relations, teenagers' own experiences and an acknowledgement of young people's agency, is suggested. Incidence rates for different forms of teenage partners abuse and violence are discussed. The importance of understanding the context in which such violence occurs, and the meaning it holds for young people, are highlighted. Young people's responses are explored, and a range of risk factors associated with this form of violence evaluate. In conclusion, messages for policy and practice development are raised.